It’s no secret that planning a wedding can indeed be stressful. Organizing what is possibly the biggest event of your life, can come with a hefty amount of stress, but don’t lose hope. There are defiantly some helpful tips that can relieve a significant amount of unnecessary wedding day related stress. After all, your wedding day is supposed to be a day of rejoicing and celebration!
Family and In-Law Woes
For some, family and in-laws can be an added amount of stress in the equation of planning your wedding day. No two families are alike and it is not uncommon for a certain amount of stress to occur when organizing the big day and including all the family of the newly fusing couple. Subduing stress when it comes to family members and planning your wedding day, can often be achieved in keeping lines of communication as open as possible with all involved family members. Keeping your family members and your in-laws ‘in the loop’ as much as you can helps them to feel aware about the wedding and the planning going into it. Leaving certain family members out and forgetting to let others know certain updates and details related to the wedding can often hurt feelings. While this is the happy couples’ special day, it is also not the intention to hurt family member’s feelings or make anyone feel left out of the big event. Communication is often key.
Planning/Wedding Organizing Stress
For many Brides (and Grooms) the actual task it’s self of ‘planning’ the wedding can be quite a stressful on taking. Don’t fret. Ways to alleviate the stress of coordinating your big day include: hiring a Professional Wedding Designer, asking for help from friends and family, and planning well in advance. Hiring a Professional Wedding Designer can take a ton of weight off a Bride To Bes back. Wedding Designers that are experienced and dedicated can become your best friend when planning your wedding! Know that your Wedding Designer is there to help your vision come to life, as well as guide you in the direction of what is feasible given your wedding budget. Asking for help from your friends, Maid of Honor, or family can also help with the coordination of your wedding day. Assigning specific tasks for your helpers can work to your advantage. There are a lot of small elements to planning your wedding day, that when delegated out, can assist with bringing together one final masterpiece of a day. There’s also a lot to be said for planning well in advance. The closer the wedding day comes, the more there is that you will have on your plate, naturally. Therefore, planning well in advance can prove to be a beneficial move on your part. Having as many of the details planned out with as much advance to your big day as you can muster, can be a great benefit to the execution of your special day. Last minute details can bring with them an added amount of stress that any Bride To Be would otherwise love to avoid.
Vendor Issues
Issues that may arise with vendors you have chosen can add stress to you with coordinating your wedding day. For those Brides To Be that have a Wedding Designer, seek their council and expertise on the best vendor options for your big day. Vendors can be selected based upon what you are looking for exactly and the price at which the vendor is offering the product or service. Take time to look into your vendors, read online reviews about their products or services from previous customers, and make sure you have seen samples of their work for yourself. You want to make sure that you don’t wind up with any unexpected surprises on your special day…especially those that are a step down in quality from what you deserve or have paid for. Be sure to do your homework on your vendors!
Planning any large event can be stressful, especially planning an event of this magnitude; your wedding day. That being said, your wedding day, by no means, has to be the most stressful event of your life. Communicating well with family members, recruiting appropriate assistance, and by planning well in advance, you can help yourself in dropping wedding day related stress levels. Along with all these tips for alleviating wedding related stress, remember to find time to bring yourself some relaxation. Some of you may be thinking “yeah, right”, but it is very important! Even if you have to plan relaxation right into your schedule, go for it. You deserve it! It is always okay to take much needed down time. Above all remember your wedding day is a celebration of the love you share with your significant other; remember that love.
Do you have any stressful wedding day stories you would like to share? How did you solve them? We’d love to hear!